Social Web: Blending the Public and Private Life

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Permalink Reply by Kev on March 12, 2009 at 6:55am

I think teachers should have always lived as if they were public beings. That is the very idea of a public servant to me.

Of course it is dangerous. That's why you see more news stories about Teachers Gone Wild than any other profession. It is, however, what we sign up for.

Frankly, our society could use a little more shame.

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Permalink Reply by S. Penderel on March 12, 2009 at 8:22am

But, what about the publicness of the student end? Their involvement in forums, blogs, Myspace/Facebook, social media/neworking, etc. It seems to be taking what used to be a private domain, and making it very public.

To the point that companies and schools, when hiring are now searching a person's facebook/myspace accounts. These technologies have allowed the private domain to be made public.

So, what about the student end of the "equation?"

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Permalink Reply by Pat Cook on March 12, 2009 at 9:06am

I have a policy not to be a Facebook friend with any current students. I think that crosses the line between public and what should be private. However, I live in a very small community where I went to high school with many of my students' parents, with whom I have several Facebook friends. Perhaps this is hypocrisy, perhaps not.

What bothers me about this self-inflicted policy is that I like knowing what my students do outside of class hours. Facebook is very revealing (positively and negatively), and I find out things on Facebook that I would not know otherwise. I'd find out more if I allowed current students. Seeing the "private" side of my students (albeitly publicly) gives me insight to who they are, and what their needs are.

The point is, don't put anything on Facebook that you wouldn't want anybody to see. Teachers on drunken binges simply should not post those videos. Used to be, teachers who made fools of themselves publicly lost their jobs.

I think Kev was right about shame.

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Permalink Reply by S. Penderel on March 13, 2009 at 1:17pm

Do you think there is any danger for schools that are actively using these sites that blur the disctinctions between public and private?

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Permalink Reply by Z. Stewart MacLean on March 13, 2009 at 2:31pm

I see the danger present only in those individuals who choose to be irresponsible. While my policy in to not have any of my K-8 students as friends in my FaceBook profile, there is nothing in my profile which students shouldn't see.

In other words, while the blending of public and private is taking place on a more global level; I honestly believe that this is nothing new. Small town America is the classic example, everyone knows everybody and knows everybody's business. The difference was (and still is) that people knew deference; people knew when to air gossip and when to just leave it be. Now, people purposely put information on to a public site that shouldn't be on a public site. And that is the whole problem. It's becoming the norm to post all of one's idiotic follies in living color. Not only that but their friends, family, and acquaintances all do the same.
I hope that this communal stupidity will die off in the foreseeable future, yet with the decline of solid morals in America it's doubtful.

So is there a danger? Only to the irresponsible.

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Permalink Reply by S. Penderel on March 13, 2009 at 8:23pm

I think the issue is that we might be living under a delusion of sorts that the private domain actually exists. What I mean is that what used to be the private realm was the home. What went on in the home was private and not the business of the public. But, courts intervened in some instances in regards to the raising of children, and thanks to Dewey the schools have gradually taken over areas of this private domain. In effect, what we "think" is private is actually becoming public and in some respect new technologies is only making these become more public. As we surrender "private" to the public, we surrender willingly our abilities to exist as if we actually have a private area.

Even now, here are our thoughts, being displayed publically. No longer do these thoughts exist only in a letter between friends, and no longer does edited formal writing the only entry into the public realm. Likewise, with Facebook and other things, students are willingly surrendering their existence to the public domain.

Just a thought, but this gradual disappearance of the private marks the start of any society becoming more accepting of greater "controls" upon itself, because we hope to "make" society into this-or-that. As this progresses further, as Arendt warns, society becomes more willing to turn over the private to the public, thus surrendering individual choice.

-- Refer to Arendt Totalitarianism book for further insights.

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Permalink Reply by Mike Simpson on March 13, 2009 at 8:11pm

I have actually ran into this problem in a big way. One of my myspace pages is dedicated to my bartending life. A former student found it and sent it to a member of my management team and they were not happy about it. They didn't know I was a bartender and a lot of my pics would not make me look like I should be teaching Drug and sex education.

Lesson learned.

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